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PostPosted: Wed May 12, 2010 1:11 am 
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Because it's neither porn nor a snuff film, so it's not against their TOS. It's a private site, so the answer to any question of "why is this here?" is pretty much "because they say so." Like anything else in life, if you have a problem with it, it's your responsibility to not expose yourself to it.


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Okay.

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Hmm, you just posted the words and the link here. Now more people will see it, they will go to it. It's ok to rant and rave about this stuff, but best to not post the words and the link. I'd like you to remove it, please.

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ok i just clicked on that and it is extremely triggering. luckily i made myself close the window again but i know that i dont always have the strength to do so and i worry that other members will be affected

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PostPosted: Thu May 13, 2010 10:32 am 
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couldn't a post mod just edit out the link? I'm wondering why there is a wait for marybeth to do it. she may not even see this for a few days.


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Because, Fame, it was hoped that Marybeth would self censor. And it is hoped that enough people will comment on the fact that it is not ok to post things like this here that more people will get the message.

I'm glad that you are saying something. The mods can't be everywhere at once, even if we think we can. She has been asked to remove the link.

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Because, Fame, it was hoped that Marybeth would self censor. And it is hoped that enough people will comment on the fact that it is not ok to post things like this here that more people will get the message.

I'm glad that you are saying something. The mods can't be everywhere at once, even if we think we can. She has been asked to remove the link.


but you ARE here. So... why not just remove it and she'll get the picture? I don't see the point in treating her like she is 5 and making her do it herself so she learns. Just remove it and be done with it. why risk more WBBers triggering themselves over a lesson she will learn just the same?


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bottom line this isn't a site about censorship. it's more about redirecting people. pointing out misconceptions, distortions, illogical fallacies, etc..

nothing is learned by erasing things, sweeping them under the rug....

we don't have set guidelines on censorship atm... so what would dictate?

and besides we should all be policing ourselves. if we did that, we wouldn't even have this issue.

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^Speaking of policing ourselves, Kat, I think it would help if I posted the link for a thread you started yourself a while back ago.


The last paragraph is what I really think can really be applied to this situation.

http://www.webiteback.com/forum/viewtopic.php?t=9369

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i don't see the point in pointing it out to her and then waiting for days when she clearly isn't seeing this. Other triggering pictures and threads are locked/edited to avoid such incidents.. i feel like it becomes a pick and choose situation with the mods and i don't think that is okay.

my feeling - either set clear guidelines/boundraies or follow the same practice with everyone. In my opinion, it would be better to just put the fire out than allow it to stay here and risk members hurting themselves with material they may not otherwise be looking at.

and thats the last time i visit this thread for that same reasoning.


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Wow, I didn't think it was such a big deal to post the both of them. Poof, it's gone!

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See no more arguements.

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Actually I just decided to get rid of it in its entirety. I didn't realize the severity I suppose

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there wasn't an arguement. just different opinions. I didn't see the need to sit around and wait for you to see this when you have a very busy life outside of WBB and may not have seen it for days. you know?

thanks for removing it marybeth. :)


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right. i don't really have much time to devote to wbb anymore and i'm fine with that

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